As I’m on the subject of messages I recall a guy called “Gary” (names have been changed to protect the guilty) from Blackpool. He messaged me and as this was early on I replied which gave him what he thought was a green light. He said he’d meet me anytime, drive anywhere, not a problem, but to be polite I said I was looking for someone in my area as I didn’t drive so it would be unfair to expect him to drive to Manchester. He insisted this was not a problem, I insisted it was unfair. “You’ve not even given our love a chance!! I’m coming to Manchester!!” he insisted. “Gary it is not a good idea as I am really looking for someone in my area!” He was not put off. “Well I don’t care what you think I’m coming to Manchester!” Really? Is that what you think Gary? “Ok I’ve been polite but this is how it is. you’re blocked.” Needless to say our romance is over.